Assembled and now stuck

I just received my x carve upgrade and have it assembled and ready for software install. I’ve installed the arduino IDE and the new Grbl. I plug in the usb and nothing happens except for windows saying its installing device driver software. Its been like this for 20-30 mins and still nothing.

Did you install the FTDI drivers for the Xcontroller?

https://inventables.desk.com/customer/portal/articles/2601372?b_id=9562&t=0

FTDI drivers. No I didnt Ill take a look at that.

hmm didnt work