@halfpress you are very welcome, I am glad you found the information beneficial!
As far as the mount, I have not had any issues that I have noticed from flex; however, I have developed a small stress crack in the front piece. I does not appear to have caused any issued and I have made a few cuts with it in that condition without issues. so far I am chalking the crack up to over tightening. I am going to print a new copy on my Form 2 in the super uber resin soon.
Air cooling is definitely a lot simpler to setup and maintain, though you cannot run the spindle as slow. Being able to slow the spindle down helps when cutting things like acrylic, or when using a 4 flute cutter. There is a lot more to worry about with the water cooled setup though, mostly procedural. For mine i tried to build as many safe guards into the system as I could, like getting a relay that turns on my pump as soon as I plug in my vfd, and putting in a flow meter on the outlet of the spindle so I know for sure that water is flowing through the motor. I honestly cannot answer the run time question though, no personal experience with the air cooled setup.
I had originally ordered a 110v VFD and a 200v motor just like you had linked, and it would not run it up to full rpm, I am assuming because of amp limitations. Thought when I was originally setting that combination up, I could not get clear guidance on exactly what settings I should be using. In fact if you look at the vfd page you linked it says to use 11 for PD142, and that is wrong. PD142 is the max current rating of your spindle, and the 1500 will probably be rated for 3 - 5 amps MAX, so just using 11 could damage the spindle. I ended up switching to a 220v vfd and had no problems getting it all running properly.
Unless you were going to be doing major aluminium work, I donāt think you would find the .8kw spindle lacking in power.
As long as you have the x axis reinforced well, you will be just fine with the 1500. The weight difference between the .8 and the 1500 is pretty significant, especially once you mount it on the x axis.
You will probably find the Suckit Distboot gets in the way of the spindle going all the way down. The design I have was from another forum member, and the hole is not large enough nor outset enough for the motor to go down without pushing it around. I need to make some design changes and print a new one. I would be happy to share that stl if you feel you need it, just let me know.
I cannot answer the X Controller question, I have not looked much into it as it is not a component I am interested in. Right now I am using the gshield, and a 12 inch windows 10 tablet to run my machine and it is working well enough. I will eventually put in a better motion control system, just have not decided which direction I want to go with it.